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公告 蕭麗雯 - 輔導處 | 2024-09-10 | 點閱數： 43

說明：

一、親子之間的溝通，不只是傳達大人的想法與期待，也要提供孩子表達的機會。如何做，能讓孩子感受被理解、被尊重？如何說，能讓孩子願意聽又不會壞了親子關係？信誼將於 2024 年 9 月 21 日（六）下午 2 ： 00-4 ： 00 舉辦【溝通有愛無礙~給父母的說話課】線上 LIVE 講座，邀請爸媽免費報名參加。

二、本場講座由駱郁芬（兒童臨床心理師）主講，將提供保有良好親子關係的分齡溝通策略，陪爸媽拆解日常親子對話的惱人狀況，練習和不同年齡孩子都能順利搭上線的方法。講座大綱如下：

1.如何營造「高品質」且親子都有「話語權」的對話環境？

2.別讓鼓勵變壓力、關心變質疑！換句話說，孩子更願意聽

3.聊沒幾句就句點？親子聊天的分齡策略＆建議話題

4.唱反調、頂嘴、口出惡言…扭轉關係的「情緒話」翻譯學

5.親子溝通的附加價值：人際相處及語用能力的最佳示範

三、本講座為線上 LIVE 講座。即日起，免費報名參加：

1.演講時間： 2024/9/21 （六） 14:00-16:00

2.線上平台： YouTube 直播（前 2 天 email／簡訊通知連結）

3.報名網址： https://bit.ly/3z2KMF6

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